Same Gender Couples
At Judaism Your Way we support granting of the full rights and responsibilities of civil marriage to same-sex couples. In the meantime, we are delighted and honored when asked to officiate at the weddings and commitment ceremonies of same-sex couples.
The personalized, tradition-based ceremonies we offer are, with some appropriate word changes, basically the same as the wedding ceremony Jewish heterosexual couples enjoy.
A note about terminology: Some couples prefer to have a "commitment ceremony," rather than a "wedding," to emphasize that in most states, same-sex couples are not granted the same rights of marriage as heterosexual couples. Other couples prefer to have a "wedding ceremony," to emphasize that the commitment made by gays and lesbians is equal to the commitment between heterosexuals. In either case, Rabbi Field will help you create a ceremony that is congruent with your values as a couple.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
How do we start the process?
If you have already chosen a date for your wedding, contact Rabbi Field at rabbibrian@judaismyourway.org or 303-320-6185 to see if he is available.
Next, arrange a complimentary meeting to see if working with him is a good fit.
What if we live out of town?
Though it is optimal to meet in person, much of the work can be done by phone, and some follow- up work between meetings can also be done via e-mail.
What is the fee?
Rabbi Field will be happy to discuss the fee with you during the initial meeting. The fee is all inclusive and covers the following services:
- as many meetings - in person and/or over the phone - as you need,
- developing and creating your personalized ceremony,
- counseling or consulting that may be helpful between meetings
- officiating at the wedding,
- if applicable, Rabbi Field's local travel.
How many meetings will we need?
To develop a ceremony that meets your needs, Rabbi Field gets to know you as individuals and as a couple, learns about your backgrounds, helps you plan your wedding ceremony and addresses any issues concerning your marriage beyond your wedding day. Usually three or four meetings of one to one-and-a-half hours each is sufficient but he will meet with you as often as is necessary and helpful to you.
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